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02 Aug, 2009

15 Minutes Of Coaching

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I am continually amazed at the power of coaching and feel privileged to be part of such an amazing skill base that lifts people lives and helps them be all that they wish to be.

I recently had the opportunity to provide ad hoc coaching to a person that I met at a Toastmasters’ meeting, which I attend on a regular basis to develop my ability as a public speaker .

We got chatting about his upcoming interview with the selection panel at Oxford University. He had submitted twelve dissertations to date and had been invited for a final selection interview. He was very apprehensive and nervous about how to approach the interview and how to win over the panel.

We discussed his areas of concern and worked through developing a ‘Circle of Excellence’ , adding in all the resources that he felt he needed in order to feel confident. We only ran through the process twice as time was limited.

We then discussed how he could develop rapport with the board quickly and effectively by matching body language, postures, gestures ,vocal quality etc.

We then parted ways and I all but forgot about his interview on the following Monday.

Two weeks passed and I received a call from him saying that the interview had been tough, grilling and daunting. They had questioned him about why they should select him when they receive thousands of applications to join Oxford University. They asked lots of grueling questions, including what were his weaknesses, which was the question that had been causing him the most concern before we prepared.

It did not sound too good.

Then he dropped the bombshell and said that he had actually been accepted, and he felt that it was my coaching that had greatly helped him win over the panel. He said ‘It was BRILLIANT’ and hoped that I didn’t mind that he had made his confidence circle into a square! As if I would, I love the inventiveness of my clients!

He has kindly sent me a testimonial:

“Thank you for your support through my interview with Oxford for the integrated MSc and Phd programme. The insight that you provided and your tips about the confidence circle have been highly effective. Without your enthusiasm and knowledge I would have struggled to achieve the positive results attained. “  Bosco Nevis

Wow! It just shows you what can be achieved in 15 minutes of coaching!

By Debbie Robinson
Top Performance Coaching

7 Responses to "15 Minutes Of Coaching"

1 | BARRY LEE

August 6th, 2009 at 12:48 am

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If possible, I would love to be able to receive your CIRCLE OF CONFIDENCE. It would be useful to me both as a Coach, an Interviewee and as a Job Coach to people with learning disabilities. Is that possible?

2 | Velma

August 6th, 2009 at 2:39 pm

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It is wonderful when the testimonies come in of lives being changed and people achieving dreams. Well done!

What is circle of confidence? How can that be turned into a square you think?

3 | Tim Roberts

August 7th, 2009 at 3:10 pm

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I’ve had similar feedback from a shy accountant (newly appointed as MD) who ‘was bricking ‘ at the prespect of fronting his first sales presentations at a three-day exhibition.

Circle of Confidence is a brilliant quick and effective coaching skill, that’s has almost magical results. I learned the skill on TCA’s NLP course, and its now under test by a coachee of mine, attempting his third driving test.

4 | amanda doyle

August 19th, 2009 at 9:37 am

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Hi
Firstly, congratulations!
That must be a great feeling, I must admit I do a speed coaching session every day with my partner and it really helps motivate and build confidence in what we set out to achieve. I would also love to learn about the circle of exellence, could you also make it known to me?
Great to hear you making a difference,
Much respect,
Amanda

5 | Beverley Burrell

August 23rd, 2009 at 2:13 am

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Well done you, how wonderful to have had the opportunity to make such a difference in someones life at just the right time!

Please would you share with me ‘the circle of excellence ‘ you used with your client, it sounds a powerful and useful resource.

Thank u 3 sharing you 15 mins coaching. We never know when we canake a difference, it’s being open to do so that counts .

Many thanks. Beverley Burrell

6 | Leila Pastecchia

August 24th, 2009 at 4:25 pm

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How wonderful to be acknowledged for the work you did. I am familiar with the circle of excellence but would be pleased to receive your version, its sounds quick and effective!

Thank you, Leila

7 | The Muslim Coach

September 14th, 2009 at 1:41 am

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I have a 10 minute free coaching chat feature on my site, and I have to say it is awesome when a client really connects and you see this change in such a short amount of time.

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